Saturday, July 28, 2012

A Love Letter for Beth Kephart

A review of Small Damages, in the form of a letter to its author, Beth Kephart, that was published on M.L.T.S. Magazine's website.

Dear Beth Kephart,

It was a week ago that I wrote on my Facebook that I picked up your newest book, Small Damages, from my mother, to whose apartment it was mistakenly delivered. That night, I started reading it. And slowly, all week, I've savored your words. Your words that float on the tongue, light and tasty as mascarpone cheese laced with lemon curd.

Kenzie's dilemma is one that most young women are terrified of. It is my greatest fear; that I'll find myself "in the family way" before I'm ready, before others think I'm ready. And I know that if it ever happened, my mother would try to make my choices for me. Of course, she wouldn't offer me the option of traveling to Spain. That one is particular to Kenzie's situation.

So from page one, Kenzie had my empathy. And you, Beth, did beautiful things with it. I saw what she saw, heard what she heard, felt what she felt. You took me to Spain. Tossed me into that beautiful place, and while I knew it was horrible that Kenzie's mother sent her there, sort of against her will, I felt like she was incredibly fortunate in this "mistake."

And for all 288 pages, I followed this young girl, whose narration flows in the most beautiful, most poetic of ways but who talks like a normal teenager, and I loved her. I wanted to hug her, tell her it would be okay. I wanted much for this heroine. You had me going, Beth, you tricky angel. But in the end, I was satisfied, like I'd eaten a plateful of paella until I was just starting to feel full.

There's a sense of accomplishment that washes over you when a thick stack of neat, beautiful book pages stands resolutely between your fingers and you know that you've read those words, seen them with your eyes, felt them tremble on your lips, tipping in, sinking in. I'm not sure that feeling is ever stronger than when I held Small Damages, the back cover closed behind the last word, and realized that I'd just come back from Spain, back from a beautiful, lyrical world that I am anxious to dive back into.
You've done it again, you beautiful storyteller, you crafty word-stringer. I can't wait for the next book.

Love, Rosella

Buy Small Damages, Beth Kephart's latest young adult novel, at Amazon. (And please, please, buy the hardback version. It's gorgeously designed and so much more delightful than reading on a screen.)

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

A Millennial Finds the Secret to Happiness


Being satisfied with life is more than a Facebook status.
During a recent lunch hour, I withdrew the last $5 from my checking account. My savings account had only the required minimum balance of $5. I was at work and needed to eat something, lest I starve. And even though I asked for ranch dressing to accompany my chicken finger platter, I was given honey mustard. I didn’t complain and ate it eagerly.
When I got home, all there was left to eat was half a ham slice and enough asparagus for me and Chris, my boyfriend. I wasn’t sure where we’d get money for more food since our rent was due the next day and a check for an assignment from a local magazine that I completed six months ago had yet to arrive. But was I miserable? No.
Let me tell you why: Because my boyfriend was home after 12 hours of work, and I had gotten six more writing assignments in the last week. Life doesn’t get much better for me. And I write that with a smile.
Lately, I’ve read a lot about how college students and recent graduates are depressed in these days of economic turmoil and social unrest. Economics experts collect and analyze data about millennials. Baby boomers call my peers lazy. A lot of writers offer their advice to twentysomethings, and most of these would-be advisers are much older than those they’re trying so hard to guide. Then there’s Lena Dunham, creator of HBO’s Girls, who is labeled the voice of my generation and who, with her depiction of unsatisfactory or nonexistent careers and sex lives, makes young adulthood look pretty bleak.
By all media accounts, being young today is hard and depressing. There’s no way I can be happy, they say. And there’s no way I’m smart enough to figure out how to live my life to the fullest amid all this drudgery, right?
Don’t tell me how hard these times are, I say, or how you pity me because you had it so much easier when you were my age. I don’t want to hear it.
To read more of this roughly 700 word essay I wrote for Philadelphia Magazine's The Philly Post, click here.

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Local teen Michael Leggerie makes Eagle Scout



Pastor Mary Konopka of Redemption Lutheran Church led the congregation through a quick service, including the singing of a hymn, before dismissing them. It was Sunday, April 15 and Boy Scout Troop 100 was setting up the church, located at the intersection of Rhawn and Bustleton Avenues, for Michael Leggerie IIs Eagle Court of Honor.

Most of the congregation remained for the 16-year-olds ceremony, moving up to the front pews. At the center of those present was Leggeries mother, 12-year Juniata Park resident Judy Nicholls-Leggerie, doling out hugs and kisses and thanks for coming.

Soon a trumpet was sounded by Leggeries brother Benjamin, 15, and Scoutmaster Vince Serianni called for Troop 100 to carry in the flags and take their seats in the front row. Carmella "Millie" Cappetti, mother of two of Leggerie's fellow Boy Scouts, delivered her Trail of the Eagle speech. Troop 100's Alex Olsen, who recently made Eagle Scout, followed Cappetti with a speech about the importance of becoming an Eagle.

To become an Eagle, the highest rank in the Boy Scouts organization, one has to complete 21 merit badges, serving in one or more leadership positions, and complete a service project benefitting some group other than the Boy Scouts. Leggerie, a sophomore at Philadelphias Girard Academic Music Program, completed 35 merit badges before making Eagle. He served as Patrol Leader, Assistant Patrol Leader and Den Chief within Troop 100. For his service project, he operated the Kids Zone when Troop 100 volunteered with the American Heart Association's Heart Walk. Leggerie and his mother arrived at the walk before dawn to set up for the walk with the rest of the troop.

After Olsens speech, Leggeries parents, Nicholls-Leggerie and Michael Leggerie I, and his maternal grandparents, Richard and Jean Nicholls, were escorted by members of Troop 100 to the front of the church. They watched with smiles on their faces as Michael lit a candle signifying his rise to Eagle, and then his mother and father were asked to place Leggeries Eagle pin on the right side of his olive green Scouting uniform.

Leggerie placed an Eagle Mom pin on his mothers ruffled black blouse before he was asked, along with all other Eagles present, to take the Scouting oath.

When given the chance to make his remarks, Leggerie said, "What's most important to me is what I learned. I learned so much about leadership."

Leggerie told The Juniata News after the ceremony that he hopes to carry these leadership skills through college, where he hopes to study mathematics and music, and into a career as a college professor.

During the ceremony, Leggerie thanked family and friends who had helped him on his journey to Eagle Scout. He had a mentor pin to give away and it was his grandfather, Richard Nicholls, whom he called forward for this honor.

Serianni read two of Leggeries many letters of congratulations these were from President Barack Obama and Vice President Joe Biden and made some final statements before Pastor Konopka read the benediction and Troop 100 retired the flags.

Attendees were asked to join Leggerie and his family in the churchs basement for food and fun.

In honor of his achievement, Leggerie and his mother have been asked to join Rep. John Taylor in his office on the night of Tuesday, April 24.

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This story ran in today's issue of The Juniata News.

Saturday, February 18, 2012

PRH: Breaking Grounds



The sun shone bright on the afternoon of November 1, All Saints Day and the day of the groundbreaking ceremony for the field house being built on the site of the McNichol Athletic Field on Moore Street between 25th and 26th Streets. Cheerleaders from Saints Neumann-Goretti High School stood in two rows facing each other, black and gold pom-poms in hand, to welcome guests to the field used by the school’s football and baseball teams. Nearly 100 alumni and friends turned out.

Once the crowd had assembled, the football and baseball teams and the cheerleaders gathered behind the podium set up on the southeast corner of the field. After John Murawski, the school’s president, led a prayer service, he spoke about the meaning of the field house that would be built on the site of the old Saint John Neumann school, which is now a senior citizens housing facility.

“God approves of recreation for the relaxation of the mind and the exercise of the body to foster mental, physical and spiritual well-being,” Murawski said.

In the early 1980s, the McNichol family, who used to run a trucking company, donated the land to the Saint John Neumann High School. Since the 2004 merging of Neumann, founded in 1934, and Saint Maria Goretti High School, established in 1955, the high schools have retained use of the field, although the athletes have had no where to change and shower. The Development staff at Neumann-Goretti wrote a grant and, in 2005, received a Department of Community and Economic Development grant in the amount of $250,000.

John Wagner, class of 1974, works in Health Care Services, the division of the Archdiocese that now owns the property where the field house will be built. While the school owns the field, but “so as to not take away from the field space we requested that Health Care Services allow us to build on their property,” Murawski said in a follow-up interview. Joe Sweeney, Secretary for Health Care Services, and Susanne Lurato O'Grady from Health Care Services were also instrumental in the process. “The largest contributor to moving this process along was Hank Clinton, class of 1971,” Murawski said. “Hank worked tirelessly to push all of the architectural through zoning properly, met with architect in the design phase and continues to oversee the legal aspects of building the field house.”

The field house represents the continued fulfillment of the Neumann-Goretti community’s commitment to “an unparalleled education for the youth of Philadelphia,” Murawski said. “This addition along with the recent additions of two new science labs, a media center, the City's first Nintendo Wii Fitness Lab and the City's first iPad Lab are proof that Neumann-Goretti has made this commitment and that we will continue our strides to offer a top notch Catholic Education here in South Philadelphia.”

The building of a field house, equipped with a coach’s office, a concession stand, a film room, 90 lockers, a storage area and a weight room, shows the 710 students currently enrolled in Neumann-Goretti “that the diocese and the school care enough for them to provide them with a state of the art facility that they will be able to be proud of,” Murawski said. “The students are chomping at the bit to say they were the first team to use the facility and they are all excited to be the first team to hang their championship plaque on the wall.”

Construction on the field house should be completed April 1, 2012 – just in time for baseball season, Murawski said.

This 600-word story appeared on page 92 in the Schoolyard section of Philadelphia RowHome Magazine's February/March/April 2012 issue.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Officers discuss local crime statistics at town hall meeting





On Tuesday, Dec. 13, a town hall meeting was held in Police Service Area 3 of the 26 District to share end-of-the-year statistics.

Captain Michael Cram made his presentation at the meeting held in the basement of the Holy Name of Jesus Catholic Church at 701 East Gaul Street, which was attended by Police Commissioner Charles Ramsey and Angel Torres of the District Attorney’s office.

The 26 District is a “mid-level district,” Cram said, with between 65,000 and 80,000 residents, and is broken up into three PSA’s. In PSA 3, which extends from Front Street to the Delaware River, homicides are infrequent with only three in the last year.

One of the biggest issues facing PSA 3 is property crime, with 1,400 incidents reported. “It’s amazing the amount of property crimes in this area,” Cram said. 

Property crimes include home burglaries and thefts from auto, and Cram said there has been a spike in robberies in the last month.

“What we find with burglaries, is they’re not just stopping at one – they’re doing two or three,” Cram said. In an effort to stem these problems, Cram and his men “stay on top of the pawn shops,” he said.

Thefts from auto keep area police busy, with over a thousand thefts from auto in the last year, Cram reported. “Keeping valuables hidden doesn’t do any good,” Cram said. The criminals target a block and they’ll break in even for just a few quarters, Cram added.

In the last year, 250 residential burglaries were reported in PSA 3. “They use force and go through the back door or windows,” Cram said. “They’re gonna do it quickly.”

Of the 64 burglars arrested, most are adult residents of PSA 3 and are repeat offenders. “They are generational burglars,” Cram said. 

Addressing the audience’s concerns about recidivism, Cram said, “It’s tough to keep ‘em in.”

Cram turned his attention to Torres from the DA’s office, who said that “Community prosecution has been a huge success” in other areas. When criminals from other communities go to court, residents have shown up in large numbers to get results.

Stolen cars are also an issue. Most of the cars that are stolen are 10 years old or older and they’re not “going to the streets,” Cram said.

In PSA 3, there were 312 quality of life arrests including underage drinking and public intoxication. 

There were 48 drug buyers and 44 sellers arrested in PSA 3 in the last year. “Our prescription narcotics in this neighborhood are bad,” Cram said.

Curfew violations and truancy is down. “I don’t have a lot of juvenile crime,” Cram said.

Cram focused the end of his presentation on ways that the community can help the police do their jobs. With the help of a neighbor, the 26 District was able to take over 2447 Jasper Street, a house that was home to drug dealers and prostitutes. It took 451 radio calls, 183 emails, four arrests and one year to convince the courts that the house was a problem.

“We can’t do those things without the community,” Cram said.

Commissioner Ramsey spoke after Cram finished his presentation. He encouraged the audience to attend hearings if they are the witnesses or victims of a crime, no matter how small. He said he hoped to implement training programs to teach landlords how to operate their businesses. 

Prostitution should be a big item on the agenda, he said. “We gotta get the Johns,” Ramsey said, referring to the men who pay prostitutes for their services.

“I promise you that I’ll do everything I can,” Ramsey said in conclusion.


This story and my photos appeared in today's edition of Star newspaper.

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Losing one of their own

Publicly, the family of hit-and-run victim Gregory Loper is calling for justice. Privately, they're remembering the best man they've ever known.


A ghost bike – a vintage bicycle painted white and rendered useless with the removal of its tires – was hung on the railing outside 1912 East Lehigh Avenue in remembrance of bicyclist Gregory Loper.

On Tuesday, November 22 at 5:30 p.m., the Bicycle Coalition of Greater Philadelphia organized the candlelight vigil and placement of the ghost bike for Loper, the 49-year-old father of 11 who was killed by a drunk driver. The vigil, held at the intersection of Lehigh Avenue and Jasper Street, was overrun by anger and sadness at the loss of the family man.

Brett Truskin, 22, of Ivyland, PA, was allegedly behind the wheel of his mother’s 2011 Toyota RAV4 when he struck Loper on Friday, Nov. 18. While some reports claim that he died in the hospital, the family has been told by observers that Loper died on the street while a female witness held his hand.

Loper’s family, friends and strangers who had been touched by the story of his death huddled under a canopy of umbrellas and hid beneath the hoods of their rain jackets that cold, wet evening, united by outrage at the legal system that allowed Truskin to go free just hours after his possible involvement in another DUI.

After a short speech from Alex Doty, the executive director of the BCGP, a man who identified himself as Jay from Tom Cat Town Watch, made a rousing speech about how he’d been hit when he was 16. “We gotta take these streets back and make the law for us,” he said.

Renee Cuffee, Loper’s sister-in-law, responded to this saying that Loper’s family is seeking life without parole for the driver who took his life. Following this, those in attendance chanted “Life without parole.”

“Look at my baby sister. Look. Look what he left behind,” Renee said as the chanting died down.

Bettie Cuffee, the victim’s wife, thanked those present for their support. She would sue Truskin and his family, she said. In addition to taking her revenge, Cuffee was sure justice would be hers when Truskin’s Judgment Day came.

“You never know when Judgment Day gonna come, ‘cause God judge everybody,” Loper’s widow said. “And when your Judgment Day come, my husband gon’ be there. You gon’ see him sittin’ there and he gon’ ask you why, ‘cause I asked him why he leave me with a water bill that I can’t pay.” 

Once more, she thanked everyone for attending the vigil. Then she greeted a few one-on-one before heading back with her family to her house. 

Back at the Cuffee-Loper household, the tone was much more happy. Loper’s children, 12 grandchildren and friends talked with smiles on their faces of the man they all love so much. The family expressed thankfulness for their loving, supportive, hardworking father. 

Loper was, they all agreed, going to be sorely missed. “They take the good ones and leave the wrong ones,” his sister-in-law Renee said.

Markedia Cuffee, 25, may have been Loper’s stepdaughter but she had never known another father. “He was a good man. Loved his grandbabies,” she said with a smile on her face. He was proud of his kids, all of whom had graduated 12th grade – except for the three under the age of 12.

Education was very important to him, agreed several of his children. Loper recently helped his stepdaughter Sabrina, who he called “Brin-Brin” and who called him “Frankie,” pass her final exams.

“He said go to school, stay in school and have a good job,” Sapphire Cuffee, 10, said.

Loper was a dedicated man who worked hard to provide for his family. “He was a hardworking man. He felt less of a man if he sat in the house,” Sabrina Cuffee, 20, said. 

He “did anything to keep us healthy and good,” Loper’s 10-year-old said of her father.

Everyone could see that he took good care of his family. “He did what he had to do,” Sara Berrios, 46, said of the man who provided for her best friend.

Loper wasn’t your typical father, said his stepdaughter Marktina. He was very into science fiction, she said, especially Star Wars. “He was an out-of-the-box thinker,” Marktina added.

Although much of the discussion focused on Loper’s good qualities and better times had with him, the circumstances under which their loved one was taken from them were never far from the minds of the Cuffee-Loper family.

Loper’s wife was at home in bed with one of her grandchildren when the news broke that someone had been hit on Lehigh Avenue. “Oh my God, that don’t make no sense. Somebody got hit on Lehigh Avenue again,” she remembered saying. “God bless,” she added as she watched the report.

The fact that she hadn’t known it was her beloved left her sounding a bit dismayed. “I’m looking at the ambulance goin’ past and all along they goin’ to pick him up and I didn’t even know it was him,” she said.

Cuffee has concluded that she must be happy for what she had. And she’s relieved to know that he’s in a better place, she said. “He up there with God now. He with his mother, his uncle, his dad, his little cousin, his aunt. He’s fine and I don’t gotta worry about him. He don’t gotta worry about his feet hurting,” Cuffee said.

Loper’s stepson Charles Cuffee, 24, may be comforted by that same notion but all he could talk about was his anger at the situation that led to Loper’s passing. “The driver didn’t take my dad, the judge took my dad when he let [Truskin] go,” he said.

Although the family must still contend with the financial burden left by Loper’s absence, they seemed to have found a way to carry the emotional burden, with Loper’s children staying strong for their mother. 

“At first my mom was sad so we had to be strong for her,” 10-year-old Sapphire said. “I’m hanging in there,” she added.

Sapphire’s older sister Sabrina agreed. “He was my mom’s backbone and she was ours so it’s hard [but we have] to be strong for her,” the 20-year-old said.    

The family is accepting donations to help pay funeral costs and other out-of-pocket expenses. Those who wish to make a donation can contact Markedia Cuffee via email at cuffeemarkedia@yahoo.com.


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This piece appeared on the front covers of both the Northeast Times and the Star today.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Sunny Eyes Up

Old men love waking up with NBC 10’s Lori Wilson and if you could muster up enough energy at 5 a.m. to turn on your TV and keep your eyes open, so would you. By Rosella Eleanor LaFevre. 




Lori Wilson has only been awake for eight hours and she’s yawning. But then Wilson got up around 2 a.m. “My first alarm goes off at two, and then I have one at two-ten. The very last possible alarm goes off at two-fifteen,” laughs Wilson, co-anchor of the 5 a.m. morning show on one of Philadelphia’s most-watched news stations. 

Doe-eyed Wilson sits on a large comfortable couch in an edit booth in NBC 10’s Bala Cynwood headquarters at 10 a.m., willing to tell us all about her job in the fourth largest broadcasting market. Most days, her work is done by now and she’s headed home where, on days like today, she takes a nap. 

So sometimes it’s hard to deal with getting up that early, but at least the drive is only seven minutes long. “The goal is always to be very close to the station, because it’s the middle of the night,” exclaims Wilson, who did morning shows at the last two stations she worked at. 

Around three a.m., Wilson arrives at the station to prepare for the show. First she reads through the two hours of copy, which she splits down the middle with co-anchor Terry Ruggles, in a half-hour or 45 minutes. In addition to checking the copy for accuracy and up-to-date information, Wilson pays close attention to the wording. “There are times when I have to make changes just because of the way that I speak – sometimes something is written formally and I’m a little more conversational in my delivery,” Wilson says.

After reading through the copy, Wilson reads a few newspapers – usually done online. “You never know when breaking news is going to happen and you’re going to have to give background about it, be able to vamp about it,” says the anchor. 

By 4 a.m., the beautiful, petite TV personality must be in the makeup room where, in about 20 minutes, she does her own face. This isn’t something that came easily to Wilson, who had never before worked at a station with its own professional makeup artist on staff. NBC 10’s Carie Brescia taught her everything she knows. “I just sucked the life out of her,” Wilson says with a laugh. “I was like, ‘What am I supposed to do?’ She gave me lessons and hopefully it works!” 

It sure does, most viewers would agree, getting a load of her mile-long eyelashes and blindingly white, perfect smile. The whole package is even more stunning in person. It’s no wonder that she got her start in commercials when she was in third grade. 

A Columbas, Indiana native, Wilson starred in a commercial for Indiana Bell’s call waiting service, which was the latest innovation. “I’m generally a shy person by nature so the camera was easier,” Wilson says. “I could hide behind the camera; it was just me and the camera one-on-one, even if millions of people are watching so I fell in love with that aspect of it.” 

The moment she realized how important television could be, she was watching Ronald Reagan make a State of the Union address. The whole entire country is probably watching the same thing I’m watching right now, she thought. It was powerful, she says, realizing that “we could all be connected at one time and getting information.” TV, that’s the way to go, she thought. 

Television is what gives her the opportunity, after all, to do what she loves, and that’s telling stories, inspiring people to act, and giving them the information they need in their daily lives, like “traffic, weather, what’s safe, what’s not, medical news,” she says. 

The “idea that we’re all kind of in it together” is one that continues to move Wilson. “We all come in different packages but we’re exactly the same underneath so I think stories that connect us all really draw me in,” Wilson says. “If I can tell a story about an 89-year-old grandmother that you relate to, then I feel like that’s having purpose in your life.” 


Since earning a B.A. in Journalism from Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana, Wilson has worked at four stations. Her first two stations were in smaller markets: Champaign, Illinois and Shreveport, Louisiana. Her third station, and last stop before Philadelphia, was WGCL in Atlanta, Georgia. 

At WGCL she worked as a morning anchor, weekend anchor, entertainment reporter and general assignment reporter until her boss decided not to renew her contract, which is “essentially being fired from your job.” To hear her tell it, she was the “victim of circumstance,” having had four bosses in three years, with the last deciding she was just “a little too sassy,” Wilson says. “And that’s fine. We just butted heads, so I left that job and then had the opportunity to look for another job.” 

Wilson, who believes “everything was divinely ordered and led,” got a few offers closer to home but in the interest of moving toward a network job in, say, New York City or Washington, DC, came to NBC 10 in Philadelphia. It’s a “great city that’s close to everything and has so much to offer,” she says, voicing the love she has for where she’s at. 

She says one of the deciding factors was The 10! Show, the station’s morning talk show, which she hosted when she arrived here. Also, she loves her current boss, someone who “looks you in the eye, who tells you what’s happening,” she says. “It’s nice.” 

That’s not all there is to love about her job, and despite the fact that she’s yawning today, that includes waking people up, she says. “I think there’s a way to do it. There’s a temperament, there’s an energy, there’s a seriousness and then there’s a little bit of light.” 

One of Wilson’s favorite parts of the job is the off-air stuff she gets asked to do. When you’re on television, “There’s a lot of stuff that you’re gonna be asked to be a part of in the community,” Wilson says. “Going and mentoring young girls, emceeing events that raise money for fundraisers. Those are the things that matter to me and the only reason that I do it is because I have a platform. The only reason they care about having me come out is because I’m on TV. That’s an honor.” 

As with any career, of course, it can be very challenging at times. “When you stop connecting to stories or stop being affected by things, then you probably need to do something else with your life,” Wilson says. “Like whenever harm comes to a child, it’s hard to deal with. Stories like that, when people come up missing or dead, it’s hard because I always try to put myself in the place of the families.” 

Sometimes the challenging part of the job is keeping your lips zipped on controversial topics. “It’s hard being objective in such a heated political climate,” Wilson says. And then there are times when it’s not what you say but how you say it that can cause trouble. “It’s all in your inflection when you’re a TV journalist,” Wilson says. 

One of the things industry watchers have often lamented is the shift away from hard-hitting news and toward entertainment. While it can be hard for some to accept that celebrities are making news daily or that citizen journalists are making waves with YouTube videos, Wilson looks at it this way: “Those things, based on my definition of news, which is what people are talking about, those are things you have to include in the conversation.” 

So will she be staying in Philadelphia, where her co-anchor Tim Ruggles has been for 30 years? “I’d like to be on a national platform, but I am completely satisfied and happy if Philly is my last stop,” she says.

Suggested Viewing (Fall 2011)


John Singleton, the guy who directed Four Brothers, which is still quite possibly one of our favorite Mark Wahlberg movies, created his newest film, Abduction, with the hopes of recreating Taylor Lautner into someone our brothers and boyfriends might like too. The action-packed thriller, which also stars Lily Collins, Jason Isaacs, Alfred Molina, Sigourney Weaver and Maria Bello, is about Nathan’s (Lautner) quest for truth after he sees his baby picture on a missing person’s website. Whether or not the boys in your life enjoy it, I’m sure you’ll find Lautner’s exceptional physicality entertaining. (Sept. 23) 

“So, you really think that the girls gonna go for me just ‘cause I have cancer?” asks Adam, played by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, in 50/50.  “For the millionth time, YES!” replies Seth Rogen’s Kyle in the comedy written by the actor’s real-life best friend Will Reiser. When Reiser was 25, he was diagnosed with spinal cancer, and although Rogen attempted writing a script about his friend’s battle with cancer, we’re sure it’s benefited from Reiser’s first-person knowledge of it. I’m excited to see this film, aren’t you? (Sept. 30) 

Opposites attract and long distance is hard. These are the ideas behind Drake Doremus’ Like Crazy. So why do we care? How about the fact that it stars Anton Yelchin, the dramatic wunderkind of Alpha Dog and Star Trek fame, and London stage actress Felicia Day, and their on-screen chemistry has critics blown away? That’s enough to make us want to preorder tickets. (Oct. 28) 

Funny. Hilarious. Hysterical. Wait – where is my thesaurus? I can totally imagine needing more synonyms for the word funny to describe Tower Heist to those who haven’t yet seen it. True, I haven’t yet, but the Brett Ratner-directed film is sure to be highly entertaining with a double-whammy of comedians Ben Stiller and Edie Murphy. About a group of employees who want to rip-off and impossible-to-rip-off Bernie Madoff-type character, the film also stars Matthew Broderick, Casey Affleck, Tea Leoni and Gabourey Sidibe. (Nov. 4) 

Adam Sandler plays himself and a woman in Dennis Dugan’s Jack and Jill. Excited yet? No? If not, I can’t imagine any other way to make you want to see this movie. Unless you’re a fan of Katie Holmes, who plays Jack’s wife, or Al Pacino. The film is about when Jack’s sister Jill comes to visit for Thanksgiving and doesn’t go home. Sounds good, doesn’t it? (Nov. 11) 

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This piece appeared in the second issue of M.L.T.S. Magazine, a publication I started. This appeared in the Most Entertaining section.

Smak Talk

Abby Kessler and Katie Loftus, best friends and boutique owners, talk business and reworked vintage pieces.



There’s a place where the walls are hot pink, the tables are covered with lacy panties and handbags, and the gilt mirrors show your greatest desires. The walk-in closet of your dreams, this place is Smak Parlour, a boutique located at Second and Market Streets in Philadelphia.

Abby Kessler and Katie Loftus, who have been best friends since they were 15, are the owners of Smak Parlour. Since bonding over the application of black eyeliner, the two have developed a shared aesthetic.

This aesthetic translates into the “fun rock ‘n roll, retro, girly, glam, 80s, pin-up, vintage-inspired styles” they design and stock in the store.

When designing, Kessler and Loftus draw inspiration from each other. “We love looking back at different eras of fashion and getting inspired! We love bouncing ideas off each other,” they say.

Their favorite pieces on sale now are the Smak Parlour embellished vintage tees (pictured in our “That’s So Raven” fashion editorial). These pieces “have our hearts at the moment,” Kessler and Loftus say. “They are all different and, well, just plan cool. Many are wide and boxy and look awesome with Many Belles Down fitted knit skirts.”

These are the very styles the Drexel-educated ladies created when they started their wholesale clothing line SMAK by Abby & Katie in the early 2000s.

Educated in design and merchandising at Drexel University and after a year in New York City working in the fashion industry, Philadelphia-area natives Kessler and Loftus decided to open their own boutique in which to sell SMAK by Abby & Katie.

They derived the name Smak Parlour from the name of their line, which they loved because it has many connotations and is “playful and fun,” and the sewing parlor where they created their pieces. “We were making ‘Smak’ in the ‘Parlour’ and so it became!” they recall.

Without any assets, the ladies financed their business with credit cards. This move, they say, “absolutely” scared them but “it was our only choice if we wanted our dream to come true.” And they handled it beautifully, paying off their debts in three years with manageable monthly payments.

For the first four years, they exclusively sold pieces from their own line. They have since expanded and added indie designers to the mix. Kessler and Loftus explain, “We buy what we want to wear when looking for new designers and hope other people will want it too!” 

Apparently they do, as it has been six years since these best friends opened Smak Parlour. “It’s absolutely a dream come true to work together,” Kessler and Loftus agree. 

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This piece appeared in the second issue of M.L.T.S. Magazine, a publication I started. The issue launched on September 5 and this piece appeared in the Most Stylish section.

Suggested Reading: Jennifer Rainville's Trance of Insignificance



Every now and then, a woman needs a good friend to smack her upside her head. Certainly, through much of Jennifer Rainville’s self-published novel Trance of Insignificance, readers will feel the urge to slap former TV reporter Jules Duvil around. She’s got everything she could want – a hot career in PR, a good husband – and yet she keeps getting tangled up in her ex-fiancĂ©, the handsome TV news anchor Jack Culligan. In fact, it isn’t really clear why she keeps coming back to him. He calls her “beautiful” and it makes the reader’s skin crawl; how could she be charmed by that most unimaginative of pet names? And how, Lord, how could she sleep with a married man? All the while, her girlfriends casually ask Jules questions about her extramarital affair. If ever a protagonist needed a good friend, it is Jules Duvil. 

Later in the novel, Jules’ mother-in-law Tess tells her that she has something Noah, Jules’ husband, will never have: a sense of self. What does Tess think gives Jules this sense of self? Her tough childhood in Boston, Massachusetts. One can see how trying to get away from your past might lead you to getting wrapped right up in it again, as Jules does repeatedly with fellow Massachusetts native Jack. 

Perhaps because of her questionable judgement, Jules comes off as incredibly real and her story is believeable. It is engaging and thought-provoking. How can we be so stupid when it comes to matters of love and lust? Why do we let our pasts best us, again and again? Can we break our bad habits and find happiness? 

The novel would benefit from a good proofread and occasionally the broadcast journalism technical jargon is distracting, but Rainville’s debut novel provides a captivating tale of a love that her protagonist just can’t seem to let go. 

Monday, June 6, 2011

WISE BUSINESS PRACTICES: Tips and Tricks from Pop Culture


This is a set of quotes and practices I culled from pop culture to improve M.L.T.S. Magazine readers' performance on the job or at their internship.

The New Rules

Rosella Eleanor LaFevre tells you how to dress if you want to impress on the job or at your internship.




Over the course of our young lives, fashion has changed quite a bit. Designer wares are now available at affordable prices and street style bloggers have placed an emphasis on the everyday style of regular women. It’s also made dressing for the work place a little freer -- if not also a little more confusing. 

So how do you dress for success these days? The short answer is by mixing classic business wear with pieces that have more personality.

Most of us will be entering companies that are more creative in nature, meaning our dress can also be more creative. Try jodphor pants or other unexpected cuts. One of my coworkers recently wore green khaki pants with black stripes down the sides. She said they were old pants from the Gap, but, boy, did she look cool, especially when pairing those pants with a black cardigan. 

Another great way to inspire confidence in your abilities, try mixing in suitwear pieces with your more unusual or basic sportswear pieces. While you’re in college especially, it’s more age-appropriate to mix up suitwear like jackets, skirts and pants than to wear an entire suit. Pair the jacket with a dress and tights, wear the skirt or pants with a tank top and cardigan. Wear a dress tucked into the skirt, like our cover girl does on page 31 (although perhaps you should save the strapless numbers for after work). 

Remember, too, that dresses are your best friend. They are simple and quick to throw on and 
usually look great. Just keep the hemline near your knees, the cleavage to a covered-up minimum, and you’re golden. We like dresses with simple, classic lines, like a shift dress or the pink dress at left. 

You can still also get away with wearing leggings under your skirts and dresses, which you should definitely do if they’re closer to mid-thigh than your knees.

Play with proportions and wear a full skirt with a well-fitted t-shirt. Wear a dolman sleeve top with a pair of skinny leg pants.

Remember to keep even your casual looks somewhat dressy, as I did with the outfit Julie wears on page 43. Here, I paired a chambray button-down shirt with black dress pants and a pair of strappy heels, which easily dress up the denim shirt. Play with accessories, too, as I did by wrapping a floral print H&M scarf with touches of blue around our model’s waist.

Wear ballet flats on days when you’ll have to run around a lot, and heels when you can, if you are a fan of elevating footwear.

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I wrote this piece for M.L.T.S. Magazine, the publication I started last March. This appeared in the Most Stylish section of the first issue.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

The Balad of Jessi and Nema

I wrote a profile of one of my favorite couples, singer Jessi Teich and photographer Nema Etebar, for JUMP, a new Philly-based music magazine.


Singer Jessi Teich and her love, photographer Nema Etebar.
(Photo courtesy of Nema Etebar)

Will power and love saved singer Jessi Teich’s voice, she says.

The singer was in jeopardy of losing her instrument last year when a cyst developed on her vocal cords. Teich’s fiancĂ©, Nema Etebar, introduced her to a friend, a world-class surgeon, who suggested surgery to remove the cyst.

People told her not to risk it. They told her she’d never sing again. Ultimately, she decided to go through with the procedure.

“I could never have the career that I wanted if I didn’t get the surgery,” Teich says.

Fortunately, the surgery was a success. And seven months after the operation, Teich released her debut album, Barely There, on Fuzztone Records.

By introducing her to his surgeon friend, supporting her decision and then assisting her through her recovery, Etebar, 32, helped Teich, 26, through the difficult period.

While Teich believes will power played a large part, she says, “In a way, Nema helped save my voice.”
Teich’s relationship with Etebar, a street photographer whom she calls her business partner and soul-mate, continually provides her with strength. The two have created a world in which they can live their dreams together. Etebar frequently shoots Teich, a brown-haired, brown-eyed beauty whose usually makeup-free face seems to transform in every picture, and she uses these images to promote her music.

They met in August 2008, three weeks before Etebar, who is half-Persian and has long, dark, wild hair that he tends to keep in a topknot, left for a month-long trip to India. They only had a small window of time together.

“We were just scrambling to get to know each other,” Teich says. “It takes time to get to know somebody, whether you’re going to be friends or lovers.”

They decided quickly.

“He is it for me and I didn’t settle,” Teich says. “Now we’re creating these tiers of art and beauty and people. I get so excited about it.”

Teich rarely performed in front of others at that point.

“I was too scared,” she says with a laugh. “I just didn’t think my music was good enough.”

One of the first times Etebar heard Teich’s silky, soulful singing voice was when she strummed a guitar and sang a cover of Feist’s “Let It Die” in his bedroom. A month later, Teich sang some of her original songs for Etebar.

“I’ll never forget those,” he says. “Because I was blown away.”

Etebar, who had been single for six years before meeting Teich, took his first photos of his muse on New Year’s Day 2009 after the Mummer’s Parade. She stood before a brown brick wall, wearing the same green hat that graces the cover of her CD, carrying a yellow Mummers umbrella.

“I was so nervous because I’d seen him take pictures of people for three or four months,” Teich says. “That birthed what we do today. That was the beginning of what he have grown into, what we have created. We planted a seed and we’ve grown an oak tree. It is a joint effort. Although he’s the photographer and I’m the model, the photos wouldn’t be the same without each other.”

Today, Teich accompanies Etebar on his street shoots. This female presence puts Etebar’s subjects – many of whom are mothers with children or homeless people – at ease.

In June 2009, Etebar introduced Teich to another friend, producer Daniel Marino. They started talking about recording an EP. Teich had planned to leave for South America with her sister that September and planned to be gone for three months. Before her departure, she and Marino get down as much of the basic recordings as possible. By the end of August, they recorded nine songs, mostly ballads.

In addition to creating images together, Teich and Etebar write songs together. They wrote  “Tuesday” and “Beggin’ You,” both of which are on Barely There.

During the spring of 2010, Teich quit talking, let along singing. The cyst was embedded in the vocal fold and by keeping silent, Teich hoped the cyst would be more defined on the day of the operation.
Teich broke her silence before going into surgery to tell Etebar that she loved him.

Etebar did not want to photograph Teich that day but she insisted. The black and white image he created shows a wavy-haired Teich dressed in a hospital gown with her head resting in her right hand and her left arm outstretched, an IV needle taped into the crook of her elbow.

“I am glad now that I have it,” Teich says of the photo. “It reminds me to keep working hard and that, no matter what the situation, if I believe hard enough and make myself strong enough, I can conquer just about anything.”

She didn’t speak for a week after the surgery. Teich broke her silence and called Etebar to say hello.
“No, you can’t do that yet!” Teich says he cried out.

It took nearly six weeks for Teich to fully regain her voice and for much of that time, she did not speak. The couple developed a system to communicate.

“We would call each other on the phone and he would talk to me and ask me yes or no questions,” Teich says. “I would hit a key once for yes, twice for no, and three times for ‘I love you.’”

Teich saw a speech therapist first and two weeks later, she started seeing a vocal therapist.

“I immediately could hear a difference in my voice and the way that it felt to sing,” Teich remembers. “It took me honestly about eight weeks before I sang a full song but it was absolutely worth the wait.”

All this time, Barely There was put on hold. Finally, Teich completed the record and released it on December 18, 2010.

“Right now, Philly’s really receptive to me,” Teich says. “I’ve been able to bring people out without really asking. I really feel like, from the bottom of my heart, outside of my ego, that my music will do well [elsewhere].”

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Salute to Service: Volunteer Plugs Into School's Needs

This article appears in Philadelphia RowHome Magazine's latest Salute to Service issue, which came out just a few days ago.

Salute to Service: Service Is Music To Her Ears

This piece appears in Philadelphia RowHome Magazine's Salute to Service issue, which came out just a few days ago.